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To provide our customers with professionalism through dance and pleasure while instructing and performing at our utmost effort to enhance an atmosphere that is meaningful, favorable and enjoyable at all events!

 

December 22, 2011

JEWEL’S ADVICE - " If you are serious about making positive changes and progress in your life, stay close.  Stay close to the misery.  Stay close and don't deny your point of pain i.e. bills, weight scale, tooth ache, heart ache, empty garage - no car, stressful job, family drama, etc.  Don't close your eyes or your mind.  Clearly see the sources of your pain and discomfort.  If you continue to feel the pain instead of numbing yourself, making excuses or running away from it, your pain can be very motivating to get you moving with some positive steps for life improvement.

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Stay close to your vision.  Stay close and review often your  written and visual pictures of your goals.  Stay close to people on fire with a purpose.  Stay close to faith walkers.  Stay close to mentors.  Stay close to people who inspire you.  Stay close to the activities, resources, places and people that reflect your values.  Stay close to those who

 MY BIRTHDAY MONTH NOVEMBER 2011 WAS THE BEST & DECEMBER GOT BETTER

SANDY’S BLOG – Oh where do I begin?  First congratulations to the G-12 Swingout Graduating Class, JEMS – MR. JOHN BILBURY, SGT. R.J. BOWERS, MR. JAMES DODD, MR. MICHAEL HICKS, MR. ALTON HIGH, MR. BRIAN HOLCOMB, MR. LAWRENCE MYERS, MR. CHARLIE SCOTT AND MR. RODNEY SIMPSONJEWELS - MRS. JACQUELINE ANDERSON, MS. MESHANDA BANISTER, MVP MS. SHERRY BRANNON, MS. ALICE BROWN, MS. SHARON BROWN, MS. MAE BURGE, MS. RITA FONTENO, MS. LOWANDA FRAZIER, MS. ANQUESHA FRIDAY, MS. MILDRED HOLCOMB, MS. DANIELLE JAMES, MS. CARLESSHA KIRK, MS. ALVA ROBERTSON, MS. JOSETTE WILLIAMS, MS. CAROLYN WILSON, MS. DEBORAH RANDALL AND STAFF MEMBERS MS. BERNADETTE SMITH AND MS. JUDI WRIGHT. There were over 400 in attendance with the best of all the rest show casers!  Thank you Jillian & Jeremy, Wild Bill Line Dance Crew, Bernard Brown's Exquisite Dance Team, Patrick & Portia, Ameka & Rasheed, and Lauren & Dominque for a job well done!

The month of November has been an exciting time in my life!  Turning 59 was a blessing, just wait until next year when I turn 60 if the Lord Wills!  On November 5, Jewels Bernadette, Stephanie & Pam with Jem, Rodney and I went to Jerry Palmer’s 1st Friday at the Skyline Ranch!  We had a great time and as always, we were there until the lights came on!  On Saturday morning we (Jazzee Jewels, Bernadette, Stephanie, Lalonda and I with Jems, Rodney, Charlie, Alton and our photographer Clift) traveled to Houston to attend a party next door to Club Divas (thank you Trina for inviting us).  Again the night was awesome and we were there until the lights came on!  Sunday morning we all got in our vehicles and traveled on to Galveston and enjoyed the ocean view, great food and fun in our hotel!  On Monday morning all went to the pier to board Carnival Triumph, my first cruise!  The leaving was great and so many of my friends were boarding, Sister Stephanie, Rodney, Bernadette and her 10 family members including her sons Bryon and Brandon and her mother, Alonda, Lalonda, Charlie, Alton, Andrella, Felix, Amanda, Tonya, Joyce, Lincoln, Linda, Tyrone and many more! We had a couple of folks that did not know the liquor law and theirs’ were confiscated (oh no!)!  The first two days of the cruise I almost died because of just feeling dizzy.  I have benign vertigo and could not walk a straight line.  Overall the cruise was great and I am going to go on one every year as long as I am able!  Next year the plan is to cruise to the Cayman Islands and Jamaica!  Be sure and get on board, more information will be forth coming!  Leaving the cruise was real easy also!  I had heard nightmares about it but it was so easy!  Be sure and send your luggage to the pier the night before and when you deport your luggage is neatly waiting for you.  There are so many people that will help you with your luggage so you do not have to worry about pushing it through the line to check out.  If you have a Passport (which is not necessary if you leave on US grounds and return on US grounds) then you get in the Passport line.  If you have birth certificate (remember if you have to fly from out of the country back into US, you will need more than a birth certificate!  You will then need a Passport or be stuck like Chuck!). When it is your turn to check off the boat, they will ask you if you are bringing animals, fruit or liquor back.  You cannot bring animals and fruit but you can liquor!  Say yes and if they ask you how much, say one liter and that is all you need to do.  They will say have a nice day and you carry on about your business!  Don’t read a lot of stories on the Internet because many are not true!Remember you cannot take liquor in your carryon luggage!

On returning to OKC, I was so sick.  Eventually I had to go see the doctor and I was given antibiotics to take for 10 days! I did not have time to be sick because I had only six days before my 12th Swingout Graduation and 6th Year Anniversary of the Jazzee Jewels and Jems and sandyknows!  Everyone worked exceptionally hard the week of and the graduation was wonderful.  We had five tables of DFW dancers and they were awesome!  It is difficult having a graduation on a Friday for out-of-towners but overall the graduation was a big success and packed!  I also want to thank my staff, Stephanie, Myra, Jocelyn, Bernadette, Rodney and David for helping me this year! Everyone got up Saturday morning and traveled to Dallas for DFW 3rd Saturday Swing.  Oklahomans had three tables and we had the best time!  Thank you Brigitta for always being there for me!!  I returned home on my birthday, November 21, and my family and friends gave me a birthday party at Elmer’s Uptown.  It was great!  Thanks to everyone that attended!  

Thanksgiving with my family is always special.  I have to make the turkey and dressing because  supposedly I am the only one that can emulate my grandmother’s!  It was so good but my shoulder was in agony and everyone appreciated what I had accomplished!  Thanks sis, Stephanie for sharing your home with the family.  I got up early Friday morning and caught the train to Ft. Worth where Jazzee Jewel Alonda Massey picked me up for a weekend of fun and Houston’s Black and White Ball.  I enjoyed her family so much.  Her 80 plus year old Granny just stole my heart!  I could talk to her for hours at a time!  Friday night, Alonda, Neeka and I danced the night away at Club Ice!  It was the best!  I was given many shoutouts!  Thank you Club Ice!!!  On Saturday morning I traveled with Alonda, her brother, Don and friend, Dee to Houston.  We checked in at the Courtyard Marriott at the Galleria and I rested!  Everyone was dressed up and off to the L-Jet’s Annual Black and White Scholarship Ball!  It was so elegant and so many dancers (almost 900) were on the dance floor, a beautiful sight to see.  Thank you L-Jet, especially Larry and Tyrone, for making me feel so special and for the recognition I was given!  On Sunday we traveled back to Ft. Worth in awful traffic but I arrived in time to catch the train back to OKC!  What an exciting month!!!!

November 17, 2011

JEWEL’S ADVICE

Whenever stress attacks it can make you feel out of control.  You will either seek flight... fight it... go with the flow, become frozen in fear or believe and act on your faith. 

       If you feel the crushing weight of life's pressure....PRESS.  Don't give up...press!  Feeling under attack...press!  Feeling joyless and exhausted...press!  Tired of doors closing on  you...press!  Need more money to take care of your family...press!   Tired of waiting, weeping and watching others get blessed...press!  Feeling like no one sees you, loves you or understands you...press!

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation . . . . I can do everything through him who gives me strength. (Philippians 4: 12-13)

 

      Remember the Lord is your present help.  You will, in time, discover the value from your valley of despair.  Though broken, bent over, bruised, burned out or broke... you can still be blessed.  You can choose to worship instead of worry.  You can have triumph through your trials.  You can be delivered from depression.  You can experience a breakthrough instead of a breakdown.   Seek God's strength and guidance to be saved from your stressful situation.

 

Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the Lord will bring you today. The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still. (Exodus 14:13a,14)

 

SANDY’S BLOG – My first cruise is now over and I am sick as a dog.  The first two day were rocky but  then things calmed down and we had a blas.  I want to thank the 50 or so friends and family that went with me.  I will tell you more in a couple of weeks when I have more time to gather my thoughts.  WE have so many pictures to share also!.  It is now time for my 12th Swingout Graduation and my 6th Anniversary of Sandyknows.com and the Jazzee Jewels & Jems Swingout Team!  What a great time I have had and if the Lord wills, I will continue to have!  Graduations are so hard!  I remember when we were happy having graduations at Rhea’s Supper Club.   The place was packed, we all brought food, could not move around from all the folks, the floor was not the best but we cared less, we danced all night!  The last three graduations have been at the India Shrine Center and each time try to make it better than the last….this is HARD to do but with the help of my graduates and staff all things are possible.  Can’t say enough how much I appreciate them!  If you have not purchased you ticket, please do ASAP, so you will not be in the back mad because you can’t see.  When you hesitate, you procrastinate, you then begin to hate!!!  So, get your tickets now!!!

 

SANDY’S BLOG – “All I have to say in this week’s blog is “God is so good!”  My youngest son, Dustin, was baptized at People’s Church, 800 E. Britton Rd, Okc on  Sunday, Oct. 2, 2011 with 45 other Saints. I will never ever forget this special occasions!

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FEBRUARY 16, 2011

SANDY’S BLOG – “I just have to start off by saying…Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!  My classes are fantastic these days!  I’m not sure what is going on but right about the time I consider making this graduation my last, more people become interested in the dance I love so much and just to watch the excitement in their eyes make mine water up!  I am not getting any younger and sometimes I get so tired!  Not just physically but mentally!  The things I have to go through sometimes are just overwhelming but praying and asking God to guide me and give me strength keep me strong and gives me the energy that I lose!  Thank you Jesus!!!  Let me also thank Mr. “Suave” Jesse for attending my class and helping with the graduation routine!!! He will return on Saturday, February 26 for a swingout workshop!  See flyer for more information.

I have raised my children to give rather than receive and that is what I have been doing my entire life.  I prefer seeing the excitement in others!  Thank all the Jewels & Jems that hung out with me this past Valentine’s Day weekend.  Friday night at Rhea’s Casablanca I gave each one of the Jewels a pink bag with LOVE on it, perfect for dance shoes.  On Saturday night we went to The Tree Lounge to listen to Jeremy Jackson and The Soul Band and I gave each of the Jewels a glass long stem rose!  They were so excited and grateful!  On Sunday, Mr. “Suave” Jesse Rivera, swingout dance instructor, and I visited the Grenadier and danced the night away!!!  On Monday, I rested and received beautiful flowers, cards, pair of shoes and a sweater for Valentine’s Day from my loved ones!  Thank you Jesse for attending my class and helping with the graduation routine!!!

 

FEBRUARY 8, 2011

SANDY’S BLOG – “The Jazzee Js attended the OKC Swing Team graduation on Sunday, January 16 at the Grenadier Club and had a great time.  Congratulations to all the graduates.  Remember to mark your calendar for the Jazzee Js 2011 #11, Swing N2 Spring on Saturday, March 26, 2011 at the India Shrine Center, 3601 N Portland, Okc.  Doors open at 7 pm and the fantastic showcases begin at 8 pm with dancers from Houston, Killeen, Dallas, Arlington and Ft. Worth. This graduation will be the biggest showcase of the best ever in Oklahoma, so please plan to attend.  I have confirmation from LaDell Headroe – Houston, Tony Anderson's Class – Killeen, Jerry Palmer – Dallas, Jeremiah & Jillian – Dallas, Jesse "Mr. Suave" Rivera - DFW and "Derrick Big Smooth" Farrow - Arlington!!! The event center only has seating for 400 people so get your tickets early or you may be sitting. Most tables are reseved seating! Tickets will go on sale Feb. 10, 2011 for $10 in advance, $15 at the door.  Hotel accommodations will be at The Best Western, 63rd & Santa Fe, Okc for a low, low cost of $60.  Call 405-848-1919 and ask for the swing dance rate!  After party location to be announced!!

May 6, 2010

SANDY'S BLOG - "I feel much better now.  I am still on cloud 9 about my 9th swingout graduation.  It was great and if you missed it, you missed the party of the year.  Congratulations goes the new Jazzee Jewels: Dena Adams, Deborah Burge, Thomasina Carter, Pamela Fleming, Janet Ford, Tanisha Harper, Deborah Sadler, Wanda R. Murray, April Norwood (beginner), Alicia Payne, Patricia Smith, Yvette Vasquez, the first class of Jazzee Jewelettes: Prisci Gbodi, Vernicia Tipton and Rayvan Williams, the new Jazzee Jems: Herman Burge, Chaz Evans (beginner) and Bryan McNeal (Wichita, KS), the OKC Real Men of Swing: Derek Dugar, Alexis Heatrice, Clarence Hedge, James Keel, Keith Laskey, Eugene Reaves, Rodney Simpson, Jeff Stevenson, and Lowell Williams, my staff, Evelyn, Jocelyn, Myra and Stephanie for their help.  Jazzee Jewels, Willa, Lorinda, Judi, Angela, Cynthia, Felecia, Tina, my honorary graduates Ms. Betty Robinson, Lanora Proctor and Brendalyn Smiley for helping with the decorations and food, DJ Poo Bear that rocked the house, the fabulous showcasers: Jeremy, Jillian, Dominque and Lauren champion dancers from Dallas, "X" the eXception of Swing and Kenya from Austin, special guest and friends Line Dance Queen Cheryl Williams and Larry Duncan from Houston, DFW SwingDance Brigitta and Starr, Legend Tracy Maloney, Dazzling Starzz Sherri Thompson, Will, Gentry, Lenny, Mark, Ray, Derrick, Shelley, Lynn, and all the rest of my out of town guest that were present, my former Jazzee Jewels & Jems graduates, TKO, OKC and Tulsa Swing Teams, my family Cassandra, Sly, Dustin, Denae, Jordan and Lailah, my cousin, Regina.  I am sure I left some out but my head it not thinking clearly right now.  I just want everyone to know that if it had not been for the Lord, this would not have happened.  Trust me!!!!

APRIL 22, 2010

JEWEL’S ADVICE -"Sometimes you could find yourself so structured, paralyzed and operating on automatic pilot, that you realize you're not living. Or you can find yourself fantasizing wishing you were somewhere else or dwelling too much about past pain. Been there --- done that --- had to tell myself, "Snap out of it and COME BACK." The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. Wish for yourself and everyone around you happiness and health, chose to be alive in this moment. Take a deep breath. Talk to yourself in a confident, reassuring and positive way. It's necessary to work with all the messy and delightful parts of yourself. It takes courage and faith to not run away from yourself. Place your feet firmly in this present moment and yet still have hope, dreams, goals and a plan for the future you desire. Whether you are suffering from past choices or circumstances out of your control, know that you can make it through this. Learn to motivate yourself. Have the courage to live, learn, laugh and let go of any thought, habit or person that is harmful to your well being. The thoughts you think, the words you speak, the prayers you pray and the actions you take have power to create. They shape your world and create your destiny. Mind the gap between reality and illusion --- between faith and fear --- between action and procrastination --- between adventure and stagnation --- between hate and love --- between anger and peace --- between forgiveness and bitterness --- between despair and hope --- and the gap between you and your next opportunity to grow."

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SANDY’S BLOG – “I was devastated when I heard the news about the death of the beautiful 24 year old Ashlee Madison that was killed early Saturday morning as a drunk driver was going the wrong way on a major highway and crashed into the car Ashlee was riding in.  I was in Dallas lying in bed early Saturday morning when I heard the news and cried for a long time and started calling my relatives.  Ashlee was my cousin, Jemar’s, girlfriend and they ignited as musicians and as a couple.  Ashlee was lead singer in my cousin’s band, TAJJ and serenaded me at my last birthday party!  I often said she could have been my daughter because she is so free spirited and never met a stranger.  Dear Lord, please hear my plea and put your arms around Jemar, Blith and Ashlee’s entire family.  In Jesus’ precious name I pray, Amen.  R.I.P. Ashlee, R.I.P.

April 8, 2010

JEWEL’S ADVICE – “You know that issue you're struggling with? There is a solution. It may require you to do something different and out of your comfort zone. You may need to ask for assistance, delegate, brainstorm and collaborate with others. Or this time, you may have to go it alone. Your solution may be revealed to you only in part or you may have to make a sudden change. You may not understand how your steps are being ordered or you lack confidence. Anger, denial and depression only add to your problem. Whatever issue you're dealing with --- know that your behind will follow your mind. If your train of thought is negative, you are doomed to crash. So start thinking positive and creative thoughts. Don't allow past blunders to blur your vision for victory. You are smarter than you give yourself credit for. Put on your thinking cap. C - Concentrate without distractions; train your brain to focus. A - Affirm the positive, be optimistic. P - Pray for discernment, wisdom and courage.

SANDY’S BLOG “For the next three weeks I am going to do some “Good for Me” news about what I have accomplished for the week because of my health.  Here is for this week: I have been getting up even when I didn't feel like it. I continue to do the right thing even though I may not get the credit or feel unappreciated. I handle my responsibilities even though it gets difficult at times.  I held my tongue and controlled my temper even though I had some "choice" words for that person who disrespected or hurt me.  I spoke up even though I took the risk of criticism or rejection. I finished what I started.  I supported those that did not support me! I feel so much better and the week is almost gone.

Thank you, thank you, and thank you! I first must thank everyone that attended the Jazzee Js Swingout/Line Dance Boot Camp on Saturday.  It was a great success and I plan on doing Part 2 on Saturday, March 27, 2010 from 4 pm – 7 pm!  If you were unable to attend because of work or other plans, you now have plenty of time for planning.  Secondly, Master T, who did not only teach how to lead and follow, he teaches the fundamentals of swing and the importance of respecting your partner.  He was absolutely marvelous and worked our butts off!!!  He taught some of the best dancers in Texas and reminded me of my FB message this week, “great dancers are not great because of their techniques but because of their passion to keep on learning” and that is what I did…learned!  Lastly, but always my first, are the Jazzee Jewels, Evelyn, Jocelyn, Judi, Lorinda, Myra, Cynthia, and Willa who organized the event, prepared the food and took some stress off of me.  My soul smiles because of these ladies and I love you!  The Jazzee Jems are REAL MEN and we know what REAL MEN do…thank you guys so much!  Boot Camp Part 2 is scheduled for Saturday, March 27, 2010 and you really need to attend!

I have always supported the swingout dance community in Oklahoma and Texas and I will continue to do so because I love the dance and I love the people that do the dance.  What I do not understand is why some people do not support each other!!  There were some dancers at my boot camp that attends other classes in OKC that knew nothing about my classes or about me!  Unbelievable, since I was the 1st female swingout dance instructor to teach swingout in Oklahoma and have brought 98% of the line dances to Okc.  Evidently they had a wonderful time because they were back in my class on Tuesday. I always tell my class about other swing dance events and usually sell tickets not mentioning blasting them on my newsletter each week.  My last Good for Me News is “I am ready to release the hold and stress of anger. Right now I breathe in peace, love and relaxation because I believe what I do is right!” 

On 4th Friday night, the Jazzee Js (8 tables) went to the Grenadier’s 1st Ladies of Swing 4th Friday and had a ball.  Let me thank the SwingOut Teacher, Master T, Mark and S-Factor’s own Lenny from Dallas for attending with us and I want to thank LJ for announcing my boot camp throughout the night! We will be back again to celebrate LJ tha DJ's birthday party on 4th Friday, March 26, 2010. 

On Saturday night about 15 Jazzee Js and the Dallas group went to The Tree Lounge and partied like it was 1999, literally.  We kept the place jamming until everyone was so tired they got weak in the knees!  Thank you, Stephanie and The Tree Lounge staff for all you do!!!  Jazzee Js love you

January 6, 2010 - Left up for another week

JEWEL’S ADVICE – “I am challenging myself in the New Year and I challenge you to join me in doing SOMETHING DIFFERENT in 2010.  Get out of any rut.  Get out of a box of old thinking and old habits.  Dust off your dreams.  Change your program.  Stretch out on faith.  Ask for what you want.   Act on your goals.  Let go of some grudges, drama, messy living and false starts.   Treat your body well with better foods, laughter, activity and a makeover in your wardrobe.  Pray and press more to defeat the trickster and your own self-sabotaging habits.  Go back to class.  Get to work on time.    Prepare different meals.  Forgive a family member.  Enjoy the company of a new pet or a new friend.   Let someone off the hook that you have been blaming for your failures and disappointments.   Feel, heal and deal with your wounds so you can start living instead of dying.  Choose to watch more empowering and entertaining TV programs.  Travel somewhere new.  Start your web site.  Be more consistent in reusing and recycling.  Never be too ashamed, too busy or too prideful to ask God for help.  Clean out your closet.  Volunteer in your church, neighborhood or nearby school.   Drive a new route to work.    Finish what you start.   Paint a room in your home. Talk to a young person and let them know they will survive tough times because you are still standing.   Procrastination is a thief, so create another stream of income, even if it is a trickle, just get started.   Stop worrying about what other people think.  Be more of your authentic and real self...no more masks, no more games.  Throw out an old piece of furniture or broken dishes.  Take someone to lunch to really talk, listen and bond without gossip, complaining, selling them something or rushing.   Work on your shortcomings.  Promote your strengths, passions and creativity.  Simply your life!  If you can't pay for it... pray for it.    Confront your challenges one task at a time.  Develop a recession proof kind of faith, joy and courage.  Increase your vocabulary, savings and confidence.   Share about God's glory in your life by telling your story.   Collaborate and spend more time with people on-the-grow.  Make each day count.   Continue learning and solving problems to keep your mind/brain healthy and active.   Remember those who help you instead of giving energy to those who hurt you.  Remember wisdom, good health, faith, family and friends are more precious than diamonds and pearls.  Wake up the sleeping giant inside of you and pursue your destiny, purpose and possibilities.   Use your imagination, trust your instincts and create empowering affirmations for yourself.  The quality of your life is shaped by the quality of your thoughts and feelings.  Be gentle, yet be more firm with yourself to motivate yourself to win in 2010”. ~ www.DoNotGiveUp.net 

December 2, 2009

ON DECEMBER 2, 1977 I WAS SO HAPPY TO GIVE BIRTH TO A BABY BOY THAT I NAMED DEREK. TO THIS DAY I ABSOLUTELY ADORE HIM AND PROUD OF WHAT HE HAS ACCOMPLISHED.  HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON AND I LOVE YOU!  ALSO HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ALL DECEMBER BIRTHDAYS – TRACY, LYNN, JUDI, CLARENCE, DANIEL, ARRIC, JUDY, HARLENA, GEORGE, TRISHA, MARY J, GREG AND CHERONDA!!

JEWEL’S ADVICE – "If you need acceptance, praise, affirmation and a pat on the back from everyone around you --- then you are giving your power away. This mindset fragments your soul and spirit. With every action and decision comes risk or reward. Allowing others to define your worth and waiting for their stamp of approval drains your energy and self- esteem. You cannot get through your life without disappointing others or experiencing regrets. Get out of your holding pattern of procrastination and fear. Take your happiness out of the "lay- away." Find your strength, integrity and courage. Find your voice. Trust your decisions. Learn from your choices. Use your imagination. Trust your instincts. Pray for guidance and discernment. Explore your ideas. Walk by faith. Action speaks louder than fear. You are enough!"

SANDY BLOG'S - “I am worn out!  Too many parties, too much celebrating, too much food, too much shopping, too much Face book but never enough of praying and giving thanks!  I want to thank the Lord, my family and my friends for helping me enjoy and receive another year!  I know this is not a very good time for many people because when I was celebrating life, many lost theirs.  Please keep the family of Charles “Chuck” Cooper in your thoughts and prayers.  Chuck passed away on November 25, 2009 from an apparent heart attack.  His services were today, Thursday, December 3, 2009!  RIP my friend, RIP. 

My birthday weekend was fantastic.  I am not going to say much about it because it was my fun and you missed out.  The Kliff Klub and Ms. Barbara’s graduation was great and saw many of the best dancers in Dallas!  Shopping at Sam Moon’s and Pappadeaux on Friday was fulfilling and a little expensive (my fault but I had a ball)!!!!!  Coaches’ Corner on Friday night was fantastic, just so good, thank you T!!  Razzoos on Saturday was wonderful and the nap afterwards was better.  My birthday party at DFW 3rd Saturday Swing was off the chain!  I want to thank all of the Oklahoma folks that joined me and the Jazzee Jewels and Jems that drove down for my special weekend.  Again thank you!  Next road trip is December 18, wanna go?

I have got to thank everyone that helped with my class at The Tree Lounge last Thursday when I was away.  Thank you Myra, Evelyn, Lowell, Clarence, Willa, John, Nikki and Avery for taking the lead and having fun!!!  I have always wanted a class like I have now on Tuesday and I thank God for allowing me to produce such good dancers and wonderful friends.  Last night we had four classes going on.  There was the ladies’ beginners class, the men’s beginner’s class, the intermediate class, and the advanced class.  We had a class in every corner of the gym and I sat back and watch with tears in my eyes (yes, I cry when I am happy)!  Everyone was having such a good time and we did not have a break for two hours, we just danced, drank water and sweated!  Let me thank my assistants; Stephanie, Jocelyn, Myra, Tyrone and John because you are the best and I love you!!

November 12, 2009

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SHANTEE ROLAND, JORDAN BROWN, BRIDGET CARR, LANORA PROCTOR, MICHELLE GLOVER, VICKIE COLEMAN, SEAN LOVE,  BRENNA KING, STEPHANIE JACKSON HENRYJAMIE GREEN, CATHY PERKINS ROLANDCYNTHIA WILLIAMSMORGAN STEPHENSON, JAMES THOMAS, SANDY NELSON, KAY EDWARDS, RICO RIDEAU, KO OVERSTREET, TINA SMITH,  MY SWEET COUSIN, LONDON THAT WAS BORN ON MY BIRTHDAY, NOVEMBER 21 (LAST DAY FOR SCORPIO) AND ALL THE OTHER SCORPIOS!!!  CELEBRATE WITH US THIS SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 14, 2009 AT THE TREE LOUNGE, 203 NE 36TH, OKC.  THE GREAT TAJJ BAND WILL BE PERFORMING AND DJ CALVIN WITH THE LATEST R & Bs!  FULL BUFFET AND THE BEST OF THE BEST GROWN FOLKS!  NO CHARGE FOR MEN BEFORE 9 PM AND LADIES BEFORE 11 PM!!  SEE YOU ON THE DANCE FLOOR

JEWEL’S ADVICE - "To build better relationships, refrain from criticism.  Criticism is dangerous and causes people to be withdrawn, rebellious, resentful and defensive.  When someone is broken and wounded by criticism they begin to build fences to protect their pride and self-esteem from attack.  These emotional fences are deFENSE mechanisms that soon block out any valid or helpful "perfecting suggestions."  

Besides wanting the basics like health, shelter, food, sleep, sex, money, and safety for one's family, humans crave a feeling of being important and appreciated. SO COME TO MY BIRTHDAY PARTY – smile!!!

SANDY’S BLOG – The Jazzee Js went to Brown Suga Lounge Grand Opening last Friday and had a great time.  I had to be in Ardmore on Saturday and could not attend DJ KO’s party so I made up for it on Friday.  He danced me all over the floor, it was all good! Trey and I introduced the “Super Bad” line dance and had folks on the dance floor trying hard to do it.  If you want to learn this dance, check me out on Tuesdays at NE High School small gym, 3100 N. Kelley Ave., 6:30 pm or Thursdays at the Tree Lounge, 203 NE 36th, 7 pm.  This past Tuesday swing/line dance class was fantastic.  There was so much room and everyone was spread out on the entire floor.  I would like to thank everyone that attended, especially the first timers because they left with a big smile on their face.  I would also like to thank the Jazzee Js that were there, Cathy, Tysha, Candace, Pat, Toni, Cynthia, and my staff: Jocelyn, Myra, Evelyn, Lowell & Clarence.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!  Hope so see more of you out (especially MEN!) next week!

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November 4, 2009

JEWEL’S ADVICE - "People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered --- forgive them anyway! If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives --- be kind anyway! If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies --- succeed anyway! If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you --- be honest and frank anyway! What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight --- build anyway! If you find serenity and happiness, many people may be jealous --- be happy anyway! The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow --- do good anyway!"

SANDY’S BLOG – “I am so tired of haters I do not know what to do.  I wish they would all get together and move to another planet!!  I say to myself every morning “Sandy, be kind today!”  I talk to so many people daily that I have to be kind, patience and understanding.  Why is it so hard for others to do that?  Yes, I get upset at folks and I tell them, I do not tell five other people!  There is nothing wrong with pulling someone to the side and let them know how you feel.  Believe me, I do it all the time and at the end of the conversation I give a hug and let the person know that I love them!!! 

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OCTOBER 28, 2009

 JEWELS BEST ADVICE EVER – “I define a “serial quitter” as someone who looks for quick fixes, short cuts, drive-through spiritual fast food and all green lights on their road to success.  They often are running in the wrong lane towards the wrong finish line.  Sometimes their ladder of success is propped up against the wrong wall.  Have you said “yes” to the right assignment/purpose for your life?

Once you become clear, determined, diligent, relentless and resilient... no thing and no one can stop you.  Yes, they can discourage you, but you learn to overcome restlessness, impatience, pain and obstacles.  Moments of uncertainty and impatience will come, but they subside.   

Have you ever stood in line at the grocery store; the line was too long, you were in a hurry, someone ahead of you was taking too long.  In your frustration, you kept changing lanes. You exhaled loudly and complained that the store needed more clerks.  This is a test of your patience. 

On the way to your dream/goal/destiny/task, you will experience discouragement and delays.  It’s a test!!!!  Can you wait without reward?  Can you endure waiting?  Can you endure when God is silent in your valley?  Can you enjoy the moment?  Patience is one of the fruits of the Spirit.  Patience comes from the Latin word “suffer.”  Worship while you wait.  Work while you wait.  Give thanks while you wait.  Prepare while you wait.  When there is a delay, faith says "STAY! "Don’t catch another train because things are not going your way.  Overcome a short attention span.  Don’t quit, stick with your plan.  No longer start and stop.  Procrastination is a thief.  No more excuses.  Instead of venting your complaints or getting bent out of shape with impatience, be diligent.  Get up and keep the main thing...the MAIN THING!

 My word of encouragement for you today is to stay in your lane.  Stay on track. Laziness, procrastination, lack of confidence and lack of self-control are the enemies to your success. Be diligent in your faith and actions.  “The soul of the diligent shall be made full (blessed by the Lord and made to prosper.). Proverbs 13:4.

SANDY’S BLOG – “I was feeling absolutely stressed until I woke up this morning, got on my knees and asked my Heavenly Father to give me strength, faith, and patience.  He told me to repeat after him “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”.  I got off my knees, took a long hot shower and let the water run through my hair (knowing I should not have done that) and down my face for 10 minutes while I was meditating.  After I arrived at work, I had a long talk with one of my graduate who is like a daughter to me and that is how I came up with the Jewel’s Advice. Friendship is an awesome thing but love is wonderful.  I always tell people to love others as they want to be loved and I know better than anyone else, it can be a real challenge!

 October 14, 2009

PLEASE PRAY FOR MY DEAR FRIEND AND JAZZEE JEWEL GRADUATE, MARGUERITE PAYNE, WHO’S SON WAS SHOT AND KILLED THIS WEEKEND. TODAY WOULD HAVE BEEN THYLER PAYNE’S 20TH BIRTHDAY!  SERVICES FOR MR. PAYNE WILL BE SATURDAY, OCTOBER 17, 2009 AT MT. OLIVE BAPTIST CHURCH, 1020 NE 42ND, OKC, 11 AM.

THESE SENSELESS ACTS OF VIOLENT MUST STOP BEFORE IT IS ONE OF OUR CHILDREN OR GRANDCHILDREN!!!  WE, THE ADULTS, MUST STOP IT!!!

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me”. (Psalm 23:4)

 

SANDY’S BLOG – “That advice was powerful wasn’t it!  Ouch, ouch, ouch!!! My heart goes out to the Payne’s family.  I could not even imagine losing a child or grandchild.  I know you have to pray for strength, but that would put me over the edge.  I pray the Lord takes me before one of them.  Children and grandchildren of mine, I love you!

Please tune in to 1140 am (Oklahoma station) on Thursday, October 15, 2009 at 12:15 because I will be on there with the Wyldchild, Scott Wright.  I’m not sure what he is going to ask me but I promise to keep it clean (smile!).  If you have not purchased a ticket to the Jazzee Js “All Black Masquerade 8th Swingout Graduation”, please do! 

July 9, 2009

HAPPY 39TH BIRTHDAY TO MY DAUGHTER AND BEST FRIEND, CASSANDRA!  I LOVE YOU SWEETIE!!!

Please keep my friend and swingout student, Anjanet, and her family in your prayers.  She lost her dad on Monday and after talking to her on Saturday night and telling her that she needed to get to him as soon as possible.  I am so grateful that she made it to Dallas in time to see say until we meet again!!  God Bless you!

Remembering the Greatest Entertainer in the World, The King of Pop! The Bio History of MICHAEL JOSEPH JACKSON began when he was born on the 29th of August 1958 in Gary, Indiana. He was the 7th of nine children. (brothers: Sigmund "Jackie", Toriano "Tito", Jermaine, Marlon, Steven "Randy", and sisters Rebbie, Janet and La-Toya Jackson

Michael began his musical career at the age of 5 as the lead singer of the Jackson 5 who formed in 1964. In these early years the Jackson 5, Jackie, Jermaine, Tito, Marlon and lead singer Michael played local clubs and bars in Gary Indiana and moving further afield as there talents grew and they could compete in bigger competitions. From these early days Michael would be at the same clubs as big talented stars of their days, such as Jackie Wilson and would be learning from them even back then. In 1968 the Bobby Taylor and The Vancouvers discovered the Jackson five and from there they got an audition for Berry Gordy of Motown Records. The Jackson 5 signed for Motown and moved to California. Their first 4 singles, "I Want You Back", "ABC", "The Love You Save", and "I'll Be There" all made US No1 hits. The Jackson 5 recorded 14 albums and Michael recorded 4 solo albums with Motown.

The Jackson 5 stayed with Motown until 1976, wanting more artistic freedom they felt they had to move on and signed up with Epic. The group name Jackson 5 had to be changed as it was owned by Motown, so they reverted to The Jacksons as they had be known in the early days. Brother Jermaine married Berry Gordy's daughter and stayed with Motown. Youngest brother Randy joined in his place. The Jacksons had a number of hit records and in total made 6 albums between the years of 1976 and 1984. In 1977 Michael made his first film debut when he starred in the musical 'The Wiz' playing Scarecrow with Diana Ross in the lead role of Dorothy. It was at this time Michael met Quincy Jones who was doing the score for the film. Michael teamed up with Quincy Jones as his producer for his first solo album with Epic Records. The album titled "Off The Wall" was a big success around the world and the first ever album to release a record breaking 4 No1 singles in the US.

In 1982 Michael Jackson released the world's largest selling album of all time, 'Thriller'. This album produced 7 hit singles, breaking yet again more records, and went on to sell over 50 million copies worldwide. Michael was keen to use music video or short films as he called them to promote his singles from the album. He worked with the best directors and producers, using the latest technology and special effects, for the hit song 'Billie Jean' The short film 'Thriller' used the latest make-up artists technology combined with fantastic dancing and choreography, to produce a 14 minute video, with a start, a middle and an ending. So successful was this video that 'The Making of Michael Jackson's Thriller' became the world's largest selling home video combined with soaring album sales. In 1983 Michael performed the now legendary moonwalk for the first time on the 'Motown 25 years' anniversary show. This performance alone set Michael undoubtedly into the realm of a superstar.

In 1984 Michael won a record breaking 8 Grammy awards in one night. The awards were for his work on the 'Thriller' album and his work on the narrative for the 'ET Storybook'.

On December 9th 1984 at the last concert of the Jackson's Victory Tour, Michael announced he was splitting from the group and going solo.

In 1987 Michael released his much awaited third solo album, titled 'Bad', and launched his record breaking first solo world tour. 1988, Michael wrote his first autobiography talking for the first time on his childhood and his career. At the end of the 1980s Michael was named 'Artist of the Decade' for his success off of his 'Thriller' and 'Bad' albums.

In 1991 Michael signed with Sony Music the largest ever recording contract and released his fourth solo album, 'Dangerous'. He toured world again in 1992, taking his concerts to countries that had never before been visited by a pop/rock artist. Also Michael founded the 'Heal the World Foundation' to help improve the lives of children across the world.

In 1994 Michael married Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of rock legend Elvis Presley. The marriage only lasted for 19 months, as they divorced in 1996.

1995 saw Michael release a fifth solo album, 'HIStory', which was a double album, first half new material and second half greatest hits. Michael toured again over a legs covering a 2 year period. In between legs of the tour on November 14th 1996, Michael married for his second time to Debbie Rowe who was a nurse that Michael had met in the treatment of his skin pigment disorder. Together they had their first child Prince Michael Joseph Jackson jr born on February 13 1997 and a daughter Paris Michael Katherine Jackson born on April 3rd 1998. In 1997 Michael released the remix album 'Blood On The Dance Floor' which also contained 5 new song linked with a 38min film "Ghosts". This film Michael played 5 roles using the latest special effects and make-up artistry, combined with his dance and music.

In September, 2001 Michael celebrated his 30th anniversary as a solo artist with two concerts to be held in New York, USA. Many artists such as Whitney Houston, Usher, Destiny’s Child, Shaggy and many more performed their own and Michael Jacksons past songs. Michael then reunited with all of his brothers performed their biggest hits. Michael then went onto perform solo some of his biggest hits. In October 2001 Michael released the album 'Invincible' so far releasing only 2 singles including the big hit "You Rock My World". Since the release of this first single the album has been surrounded by rumors of a rift with Sony Music and a clear lack of promotion of the album.

Jewel’s Advice: “A sister called me the other day after her husband walked away from a long marriage, her passed away a month ago, her dog died and her son moved away to go to college. She had a crash course in "surrender and letting go." Sometimes love don't love nobody...it seems. Yet when you have faith and constantly seek ways to keep your sanity and self-esteem, the storm soon passes over. Pain in your life will motivate you to pay attention to the small things in life and be grateful. It's a wakeup call to stop putting your happiness in lay-away to start living. Life is too short and too unpredictable to wait until everything is perfect in your life to be happy and content with self. People come in your life for a reason and for a season. Be happy now! Be grateful what you have and where you are now! Follow your dreams now! Do something with your life now!

SANDY’S BLOG – This is the first 4th of July weekend in 7 years that I was in Okc.  I am usually in Dallas, Las Vegas or New Orleans and this year I stayed home.  I did a lot of soul searching and praying and came up with, I can do good all by myself and that is just what I did…good all by myself!  Thursday night I had to teach all classes by myself again since the majority of my staff was vacationing (thank you Myra for staying in OKC with me and helping out) but we had the best time.  I do not know what I would do if Okc’s Men of Swing did not come out to help me.  We almost had as many men as women and it is a wonderful site~!  Thank you guys!

June 17, 2009 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY DEAR SON DUSTIN, MAY YOU HAVE MANY, MAY MORE!  LOVE YOU, MOM

One week after my 7th graduation

JEWELS ADVICE –  "On a regular basis, get off the fast track of working, going, worrying, chasing love and chasing success.  Be willing to experience the healing sweetness of silence, solitude, stillness and serenity. So often a stressful event in your life can seem like a swift kick in the butt or heart (believe me, I just barely made it through my 7th swingdance graduation one day after a close friend passed).  Nothing can prepare you for these painful times.  When grief and stress becomes your unwelcome guest, try not to remain stuck in your misery.  If you spend a lot of energy just trying to stay well/sober, pay your bills, go to work and just keep your head above water.....you are in a survival mode.   You have no time or energy to work on your goals.   When you dread waking up, going to work, answering the phone or even just getting dressed, you're in a survival mode.   If you are constantly looking over your shoulder with fear, worry and procrastination, you are in a survival mode.  Once you are organized and stabilized to get rid of or cope with the drama in your life you can grow into a success mode.  Instead of looking over your shoulder dreading that bad things are gaining on you, in a success mode you are looking forward to making great strides of improvement.   In a success mode you pursue your goals on a consistent basis.   When you're excited about getting up and keeping up with the necessary steps to take your life to the next level, you are in a success mode.  When you have an attitude of gratitude, a plan for your life, peace, faith and a proactive vs. reactive mindset, you are in a success mode.   What mode of action are you in today?  If you're in a survival mode, it doesn't mean you are a failure.    You are a success because you are not giving up.    You are doing the best you can until your change comes.  Continued dissatisfaction and problems in your life will keep you in a survival mode.  Pray for the strength and breakthroughs to get you into a success mode."

SANDY BLOG’S CLICK HERE FOR GRADUATION PICTURES "I just said to myself, which is the best advice I have given myself in a while, that just when I decided to leave the negative, stupid and toxic habits and people, others want to drag me down and hold me back. I simply think or say ... "Don't confuse me with someone who is unfocused, lacking determination or weak in self-worth or self-esteem. I acknowledge my priorities and God's power, potential, promise and presence within me. Therefore, I do not spend major time on minor things or with minor people. I have learned to tell all negative, gossipy, critical, judgmental and dream-stomping people to kiss my positive attitude.   I learned within the last week that if a friend will lie to you, betray you, or take from you, you DO NOT need that friend. Let him or her go!   I need a long vacation!!!

Last Thursday in my dance class, my son-in-law’s wireless microphone was taken and no one seems to know where it is.  My son-in-law was generous enough to let me use it each week during class as we rehearsed for graduation and for someone to take it knowing it did not belong to them, is just wrong (this is called stealing!).  I am putting up a nice reward for the return or information leading to the microphone.  So good friends of mine, if you see someone in our circular of acquaintances with a wireless microphone that usually do not have one, please give me a call and I will be there to check it out.

Let me thank everyone that came to my 7th swingout and 1st line dance graduation.  It was held at the Tree Lounge and when the graduates began to dance on “Smaller the Club, The Bigger the Party” everyone knew what it meant.  There were more folks standing up, than sitting down.  Folks were dancing and fanning (like in the old days) because it got a little warm but cooled off after the owner came in and checked out the thermostat. Planning a big event is not easy and when it is over, you sleep like a baby!  Let me thank first, the Jazzee Jewels that assisted with the decorations and food: Jocelyn, Judi, Myra, Patty, Stephanie, Toni, Carmencita, and Shirley.  Towels by Lorinda, Shoe Bags by Big Smooth, Sly the door keeper, Smiley, showcasers, Horace and Phyllis, DJ Calvin, Saxophonist Moe Williams and band, Stephanie G and the entire Tree Lounge staff, all the Jazzee Jewels and Jems, Okc Men of Swing, Dallas Dancers, LJ & the Grenadier’s 1st Ladies of Swingout, Oklahoma SwingDance Team, DJ KO, TKO Dance Team, Tyrone, Rodney, family and dear friends.  We started graduation with the Jazzee Jewels walking in as police women doing the Gangster Walk dressed in black and white, badges, whistles, handcuffs, police/sheriff hats, and flashlights!  As we did a short version of the Gangsta Walk, the music stopped and we flashed our flashlights on our dance partner and summoned them to the dance floor. DJ Calvin then played “Mrs. Officer” by Lil Wayne and Valentino and we showcased. Showcasers were Stephanie & Rodney, Shirley & Derek, Judi & Eugene, Carmencita & Keith, Toni & Darrell, Jocelyn and someone she flashed (not sure of his name but thanks!) and Larry & I. I was so busy, I forgot to put on my dance shoes and just had on bare backs.  I would never advise anyone to showcase in bare backs!  Our partners took us into the diva walk as we left the dance floor.  My good friends Horace and Phyllis, showcased old school fast dance to show the audience where swingdancing originated.  The couple danced for our good friend, Willie Young that had passed the day before.  It was an emotional time for me but Horace and Phyllis tore up the floor!  After the Jewels changed into their jungle attire, I began the graduation. I was so proud of the first group of immediate dancers because most had only been dancing for three months (12 lessons) and the passion was so great, I could feel it.  They were: Patti & Derek, Judy & Clarence, Rhoda & Larry, Joyce & Keith, and Felecia & Phillip!  Thank you guys so much!!  My second group was the advanced couples who have been dancing for over 3 months, except for Evelyn, only 2 months (8 lessons),  diva walked to the floor were Jamila by Derek, Lalonda by Eugene, Evelyn by Larry, and Cynthia by Lowell.  After the showcasing of the advanced group we had the graduation ceremony. The new Jazzee Jewels and Jems were proud and I am so proud of you all. It was all about the graduates and they had a great time.  When you haven’t danced in front of people that you do not know or unfamiliar with me or if you have never danced before, you get a little nervous and when it is over you feel like you have conquered the world and that is exactly how my graduates felt. I hope everyone saw the good out of this graduation, I surely did!  All venues are not the same and none have the same policy. So for The Tree Lounge to welcome us each week and let us do pretty much what we want to during our allotted time, I am so grateful. The Jewels received, framed certificates, shoe bags, fans, and earrings.  The Jems received embroidered towels with “Real Men Swing Dance” and their name, battery operated fans, President Barack Obama key chains, and my poem titled “There is Nothing More Beautiful Than a Black Man that Swing Dance”! I also presented the Tree Lounge with a certificate for being an official place to swingout and line dance, bags for the ladies with an embroidered tree on front, and a 24x30 framed art of a band and swingdancers! After the ceremony the dance floor was opened and everyone flooded the floor as the band played.  At 9:30 pm and the Jazzee Jewels and Jems took line dances to a different level and I could finally breathe a sigh of relief. Believe me, graduations are not easy when you do as much as I try to do. It was a great surprise and shock when Jazzee Jewel Carmencita agreed to sing with the band after I gave her my famous speech about following your dreams and all things are possible because God had her back! She brought tears to my eyes with her rendition of Nat King Coles’ “When I Fall in Love” and received a standing ovation.  Good job, Carmencita, you are now on your way to big and better things!!  You made all of us so proud!!!  I’m sorry if I seemed a little quiet and did not get around giving everyone a hug and saying hello, but my mind was working faster than my body and at 11:30 pm my body shut down and I had to retire to my bed! All graduates, I would just ask you to do a small favor for me…remember to keep practicing, keep dancing and I hope you will continue to come to class and enhance your style!!!  I hope everyone liked their gifts.  I really try hard!!!  Thanks again and I love you! If you want to learn the latest line dances, please stop by The Tree Lounge and we will show you how!!

I have a few dancers going to Tulsa on Friday night to lend a helping hand at my swingout/line dance class. If you are available and want to get away and enjoy some Tulsans, come to The Living Room, 2610 N. Yale. If you would like to spend the night, the Jewels got a $50 bid on Priceline.com for the Doubletree Downtown.  All you have to do is name your own price, choose Tulsa Downtown and bid $50.  You must pay for the bid at that time so have your debit or credit card ready.  The Jewels bunk together so our stays out of town are minimal.  We know how to do the darn thang!  Hope to see you there!   Also, remember, the Langston Alumni Dance-a-thon will be on Saturday, June 27, 2009 at Langston OKC from beginning at 10 am.  If you are interested in dancing or giving a donation, please call Derek Dugar at 405-417-0459, you will be much appreciated.  I will be judging a dance competition at the AEC in Arlington, TX on that day and will be unable to attend.  My thoughts and prayers will be with each of you.  In case you are in the Dallas area next weekend, please let me know and I will give you our itinerary!!!

MY DAILY AFFIRMATION:

Your body is one of the most fragile things you need to care for. All too often we allow sickness, stress, and even other people run our lives. It's tough to consistently pursue your goals when you're laid up or constantly fighting illness. Take a preventive approach to your health. By eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, getting plenty of sleep, and dealing with your emotions, you can build and maintain a healthy body that can help you improve other areas of your life!

Life is not about weathering the storm; it's about learning to dance in the rain!"